Self Reflection

 The way i communicate with someone who i don't want the relationship to go past experimenting is i don't open up. I tell the person my name, what my major is, just small talk.  If i want  it to become a more  intensifying relationship i usually start talking about my goals and more of my life history. Just to make sure that we're both on the same page. Im not going to freak the person out and start talking about every little thing that has happen in my life. I would also spend more time with the person, usually outside of how we met.  I usually can tell when the relationship has moved way beyond intensitying. The one way i can tell its 'serious" is when i have introduced him to my parents. When we start taking mini road trips or when the things we do start becoming one.